Diary entry....

For the past couple of weeks reality has been hiting me so hard... I try to ignore but honestly I cant run away from this any longer. Im not in a good space. Everything had been going so well in my life since the year began but it seems like it was only temporary. I feel like im depressed,like I'm losing myself all over again...feeling like how I did last year. I hate it so much,I really didnt want to be back here again...Im starting to think I never really found myself to begin with... I cry so much and sometimes I just dont know why...ok,Im lying.. I do know why,I just sometimes dont think the things I cry and become so sad about are worth it... Let me fill you in into my mind and heart..call this a diary entry. I hate where I am in terms of school,I feel like I have made the wrong choice as to what I wanna study.. It happened alot this semester that as I was sitting in my law lectures, I felt so out of place.. like im just not fitting in and Im not suppose to be here... After a whole year wasted of doing nothing last year its pretty shitty to be feeling like this since I finally got the chance to study. I feel like Iv ran too far now in this to just turn back and say "I dont want to do this anymore" even though its the truth,I really dont want to do this anymore. Im not doing as well as I wanted to and its frustrating me. Exams are approaching and Im so scared that I wont make it and my biggest fear of all is that Im going to let my mother down after everything she has done for me to get me where I am... My current relationship with the person I really actually love after all the bullshit Iv been through with the oppposite sex is also falling apart infront of my eyes and I really dont know what to do. My mind says I should just let go and walk but my heart wont let me move... He makes me so happy but there's such a huge storm.. It hurts me so much because in my heart I know Iv found the perfect one,he is so good. He is the change Id been looking for for the past year. The one I thanked God everyday that I have finally met him. and now? Its bad.. and I try to hold on but its so damn hard.. Then there's my father.. "typical South African Run Away,Hide and Seek" kinda father. He's sold me the best of dreams and I bought them. He made me believe that he is changing and actually wanted to make things work with me last year.. but.. he disappeared AGAIN!!! Im so angry and I really dont want to be. He promised to support me and my mother when it comes to school,he promised me the life of knowing where I come from... and now that I need him,he is gone..again... I blame him for so many things. I blame him for my failling relationship/s. I blame him for not sticking around to show me how male love feels,how to conquer the world,how to be strong. Now Im outchea dealing with shit im not strong enough for. Then there's me and God.. I miss the relationship I used to have with my Supreme Being. Now Iv lost some faith... I miss the every-midnight-praying lady I used to be. Now she's also disappearing... I suffer from insecurities.. self doubt,I question everything,Im scared of getting hurt,I feel crazy.. I miss the girl I used to be 2 years ago. I didnt care much and my spirit was at ease most of the time. When life got tough Id laugh it off and Id be alright. I used to cool. I liked that Nolwazi. She left me last year when shit started hitting the fan... and I dont think she's gonna come back. I write this and Im crying. But I really feel I needed to. I cant vent to some people close to me coz they will never understand.. That's why i wanted to blog again coz I thought id find some form of therapy. "Posting your issues on the internet isnt going to help you sweety" you might be thinking. But maybe someone who reads this will tell me something that I really need to read.. But comparing how I felt from the beginning of this paragraph to now,I feel better for venting... I pray that things will turn around.. 2013 was suppose to be my year. I hope in this darkness I can find light...because honestly... Im such a mess....

So I made it past 2012 :) . I couldnt have been any happier the day that year ended. Its been so tough but I made it,alive and okay. I go to school now :) God blessed me with the opportunity to get education at the University of Johannesburg. I'm a Bcom Law student.. How do I feel about it? uhm,ill tell you later.. but yeah,Ive even moved out of home and I stay with one of my close friends in Braamfontein. There's alota progress a compared to the state of my life last year. I started singing again too so that's also pretty cool. I dont know if I ever told you about my relationship with my mother. It used to suck but its improved so much since Iv left home. "absence makes the heart grow fonder" really does define the situation between us now. My older sister gave birth to the most gorgeous girl in the world,il introduce you to her later. And boys? ah well there's been ups and downs so ill tell you later about that too... but basically the point im trying to make is that life has improved in comparison to last year. But there's soo much room for more happiness..

Hi,Im back :)

Its been about 9 months since Iv been here :o ... To be very honest with you I dont know why I havent been blogging,I cant use the excuse of "I havent had time"... Oh there's been plenty of time. I guess Iv been lazy,lazy to think about what I wanna say. Or maybe I just generally didnt know what to say.. Its been 9 months man,there's so much that's happenned and I really wanna just tell about what's been happening beween then and now.. Im not in the best of spaces and Ive been itching to return and to just vent on my online diary and to however cares about reading this. I really wonder if anyone really reads this... I might just be talking to myself.. but hey,it doesnt matter. Im going to post things anyway as a form of "therapy" . I need this....

WASSUP! Its been a while since Iv been here... Ive been busy here and there and a bit lazy to post about anything.. and I didnt know what to post about. Has much happened in the days Iv been away? yeah well,kinda,sorta. I havent been a depressed soul :D thats one thing im surely proud of! In fact Iv been a happy chap most of my days... I thank God for that. A blast from the past came back -_- .. Il share more about it in posts still to come. I also needed to get my head right and grow here and there,but other wise iv been rosey. :)
Oh yeah,to whoever reads this blog,thanks for taking your time during your busy day to read the nonsense and stupid and meaningless things I post :) It means a lot to me that someone cares to see whats on my odd mind.

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LMAO bathi triple C... wahahahahaha

party of the year!!!!!!!!! MUST GO!

They say "every man for himself"... Well I dont fully agree. What I say is that you need to know which man/men/people is/are for you. In life,we meet specific people who play roles in our lives. People who have helped us shape ourselves into what we are today. So we do need people in one way or another that help you in life,but to me it is very important to know which people are there for you and which people are important to have in life to mould you into a better person. Know which people CARE ABOUT YOU as much as YOU CARE ABOUT THEM. Rank the people in your life the same way they rank you in theirs. Care for those who care for you too... sacrifice for those who will do the same for you. There is no other crap feeling than to have someone as a priority/top rank in your life but only to find out you are faaaaar down the list in their life. In my 18+ years of existence I have learned who is for me and who is not for me in the ways I am for them. When you take time just to really think about who actually gives a fuck about you. Such an assessment is vital! makes life and elimination of unnecessary things alot easier...

And most importantly,if someone doesnt care about you,you need to apply a ZERO LEVEL CARE.you can breathe without them,so you dont need them either..and you shouldnt give a damn