They say "every man for himself"... Well I dont fully agree. What I say is that you need to know which man/men/people is/are for you. In life,we meet specific people who play roles in our lives. People who have helped us shape ourselves into what we are today. So we do need people in one way or another that help you in life,but to me it is very important to know which people are there for you and which people are important to have in life to mould you into a better person. Know which people CARE ABOUT YOU as much as YOU CARE ABOUT THEM. Rank the people in your life the same way they rank you in theirs. Care for those who care for you too... sacrifice for those who will do the same for you. There is no other crap feeling than to have someone as a priority/top rank in your life but only to find out you are faaaaar down the list in their life. In my 18+ years of existence I have learned who is for me and who is not for me in the ways I am for them. When you take time just to really think about who actually gives a fuck about you. Such an assessment is vital! makes life and elimination of unnecessary things alot easier...

And most importantly,if someone doesnt care about you,you need to apply a ZERO LEVEL CARE.you can breathe without them,so you dont need them either..and you shouldnt give a damn